May 11th, 2008
Eric Greene: Cliché but true; moms are great
Mothers are great, kind and generous. They’re loving and supportive. They’re genuine.
You’ve heard that before, perhaps felt it in your lifetime and most definitely read it on a greeting card.
As a result, I’ve struggled the past few days to organize my thoughts about mothers and motherhood.
My thinking, nevertheless, led me to pondering my own mother and reflecting on time we’ve passed together.
There was the day when I was a young boy, riding in the car with Mom, who began to make funny faces at passing cars in an attempt to make me laugh. It worked. She made herself goofy, caring not about her own possible embarrassment, for my benefit. I realized then how cool my mom was, and I’ll never forget that beautiful moment.
Another time, we drove to the city to see a movie, an experience that was a rare and big deal for kids in rural areas with no movie theaters. And so it was a rare, big deal for me to go to a movie with my cool mom.
My mother did many fun things with me, but she also made decisions in raising me that, as I consider them in adulthood, couldn’t have been easy.
As a thrill seeker whose friends were allowed to take their bikes down our dirt road and across the nearest paved road, I once felt it was time for me to expand my permissible roaming area. Until then, I was not allowed to cross Johnson Road without an adult.
“But Mom, I’m 9 years old,” I declared. What I don’t remember is if she laughed in my face, as maybe she should have. What I do remember is she granted my request. She must have wrestled with the question in her own mind and decided, hesitantly, to let me have a little more independence. Now a parent, I can relate to that hold-your-breath feeling she must have had when I took off on my bike. That afternoon, she let go a little.
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